Of course I act different around a boy. Now I don't act like my complete opposite when I'm with a boy. But I'm more conserved to them because I have quite the opinion on them (some good, some not so good) I still treat them as an "equal human being" I just don't have that much to say to them and I can't "open up" as much as I can to my mom or close friends. Now when it comes to their personalities it's split. The guys who think they are cool but really aren't or the guys who actually has a mirror in their locker, I don't care if they know me or not, I don't want to talk to them. But the guys that know who they are, decent friend. But all in all my "womanhood" defenitly NOT on the line when I'm around a guy at all. Men are not the dominant sex, neither is woman. In my eyes we are all equal we just need to find the right path. -Katie M.
Boys and girls... are they really different? They are just like us, they have organs, emotions, and they know how to love. But even though they look like us and act like us, would some act different around their opposite sex? For example do you think girls act different around boys or boys act different with girls? Research shows that eighty percent of girls and boys will act different around each other. You may want to ask them if you do, but the obvious answer would be a no, but you may see it. It's true that people would act like this because they're flirting. Flirting can have many meanings but in my own words it's when at least one girl and one boy are talking together, but the girl has a high voice and is starting to turn red, but thats my definition. It can be very common that a girl and a boy act different around each other because they like the opposite sex, are best friends, and or are close friends. For example one afternoon I was hanging out with some people and some boys, as I see that all the girls and boys were acting different then they regularly do. The boys were laughing and talking to one particular girl, as the girls were even acting weird and twisting their hair in one finger. I do believe that girls act different around boys and same for the guys. I have seen the difference and has heard of it. Allot of times boys will try to hide their secrets in them, like who they like or a test grade, but it always comes out. Boys and girls are just the same but love takes over your body and shows you how its done.
Honestly, I think almost all girls act differently around guys, I do believe I am one of them. I think I’m more quite and self conscious when it comes to this. I’m not the type of person who can express their feelings without worrying about what people think of me. I know it shouldn’t be that way because you are who you are and no one or thing can change that but that’s just how I am. I don’t necessarily think my womanhood is on the line every time I’m around a boy. I think it depends on who it is, whether it’s the “popular” type of guy or one who is close to you and can trust. Obviously, I’m more open to those who care about me, have respect towards me, and don’t judge my thoughts. However, some girls don’t have problems talking to the opposite sex. Typically, these are the popular pretty girls who know guys will talk and flirt back. It does bother me, but that’s just how it is. Madi Critchfield
No I do not feel like my manhood is on the line everytime I talk to a girl. I don't understand why we should feel that way when we are around any girl. I mean I understand that sometime guys get nervous around girls but, I don't think they should feel that their manhood is being challenged. I think we should just be ourselves when we are around anybody.
Pesonly it depends on the girl. If its one of my sisters frends I act more grown up. Around girls in our grade on the outher hand I just don't change. Well thats not intierly ture I lock up and nothing emoshanal ushaly gets out and nothing gets in. I would be trying to get a girl to go out with me with little success. Now that I'm going to a difrent high school and a all boys school things have fallen in to place. Drama tends to be drawn in to girls that have been in puberty for longer.Apon realizeing this I have relized that the girlsin this school have no reason that they have no sain reason to juge me and if they do than thats thier cross to bare not mine.Back to my sisters freinds. There nicer to me than any girl in this school. The to reasons is probly just I'm asome and my sister is too.Alsow when it comes to sports if I were the type of feable athleat that changes his playing when girs are there that would be bring my inermost focous in to outerspace without a helmet and lowering my skill as a player. So yes do change when girls are arould, but it is to keep girls outand my true self in.
Is my manhood on the line every time I'm with a girl or girls? No, I dont really think so, well for me at least. Sometimes some girls make me nervous but over my "manhood" is not judged by how i act around girl, its how i act around people. Relizing there just girls, not monsters, makes it easier for me to be my self.
I think almost every girl acts different around guys. I have no idea why we do but we just do. We worry alot more about basically everything you could imagine, whether we said the right thing or just looked like a total idiot. Girls are just all around very self concious when they talk to guys, always worrying about their hair or what they look like where around friends or other girls we really don't care or at least we don't care as much. I don't really think that our womenhood is on the line at all around the opposite sex both male and female have the same amount of dominace. I don't think guys are any better than girls or girls are any better than guys. In my opionion we are all equal Sinead
Oh realtionships, gotta love them or hate them. I think they're a joke. The fact that we're only 13 & 14, and that ourselves our in a "commited" realtionship makes me laugh. If your in a realtionship do you see yourself with this person, 4 years from now? Because most realtionships only last 2-4 months average from what i see in my school. Would this affect my manly hood? Ofcourse not, the realtionships I've been in, mean nothing to me whatsoever. Unless something idiotic happens, that can affect my future, then no. The fact of talking to the same girl, being with the same girl annoys me. I rather just flirt with girls, and not being in a realtionship, and enjoy the rest of my childhood. It is what it is, look at some guys in my school, some of them are total tools, being with a girl every 2 weeks, that affects their manly hood. All in all this doesnt effect my life.
I feel like my manhood is on thin ice because if girls found out about the real me, I'd be a laughing stock. So yes I'm a different person around girls. Jack Levy
My womenhood is the only thing thats normal. Why should I act up for some random guy? If you want to do it and make some guy fall in love with you then go ahead. Cause thats what alot of people do these days. They wear fancy cloths,have there hair done, or even get fancy jewlery. Me, I like to be my self. There really isn't a reason why I would act up or anything. I don't know what these girls see in these guys for them to act up so much. There's really no point to it, I mean if a guy likes you then he likes you. I'm not going to dress up as some huchy mama for a boy. Sorry ladies, but I'm not going to change my personality. Angel:(
If a boy likes me I would never act differently around him. Whats the point in that, because then if he starts to like me I know that he likes me for me. And not some mask that I'm wearing to protect myself from disapointment. I like myself just the way I am and nobody can change that. Madison Welch
My womanhood is the only thing about me thats always the same. When you relizie that guys r just people it makes it easier to be around without gettin all nervous. Me personaly if im around a guy i like sometimes i'll get alittle nervous but i know they'll have to like me for who i am and not who they want me to be. Kyrsten:)
Relationships can do a lot of things but just because I'm around a girl doesn't mean that I've to be someone I'm not. Everytime I talk to a girl doesn't me my manhood is on the line I mean well sure there might be a certain person to me that makes me nervious but just cuase I'm talking to them doesn't mean I could loose my manhood. When you are talking to someone of the opposite sex you want to be yourself. Being yourself is important when you are talking to someone but just from talking to someone of the opposite sex doesn't not mean you could loose your manhood or your womanhood. So always be yourself to who ever you're talking too.
the avrige crush only last 3 months s girls dont worry your ditsy frends will be back to normal soom and guys well just dont brake up over txt i've seen the receving end and it aint cool.
i think that relationships are good and bad becuase when you'r first going out everything is always good and your happy. then comes the fights your friends being mad becuase you dont hang with them anymore. Also the fact that if you get the girl and the other kid that didnt is after you. this turns into the triangle. and when this forms it ends up of chain reactions of diaster cause in the end some guys our girls are so focused on that girl or guy they forget about every thing around them. Also they are good becuase its not healthy to be alone and not have some one to care about. To me personally its a good feeling. Also some guys think that they run the relationship and the girl is there property but honestly it takes two for a relationship not one. -JACK PEDANO
You are truly your own person. I am so happy to read how you don't change yourself just for a member of the opposite sex. Always be true to yourself, and be yourself around others. To many masks are worn in this world.
In many cases the opposite sex usually act different around each other. Talking about myself, on occasion, I do act different around guy,but that's depending on which guy your talking about. I have many friends that are guys. Some I've been friends with since I was three or in first grade. Being around my guy friends I know I can be myself. I can laugh, make a joke, or even say their shirt looks pretty every once in awhile. They treat me like a extremely good friend, not just a girl. I know they would never judge me. :) -Kim LaPorte
Of course I act different around a boy. Now I don't act like my complete opposite when I'm with a boy. But I'm more conserved to them because I have quite the opinion on them (some good, some not so good) I still treat them as an "equal human being" I just don't have that much to say to them and I can't "open up" as much as I can to my mom or close friends. Now when it comes to their personalities it's split. The guys who think they are cool but really aren't or the guys who actually has a mirror in their locker, I don't care if they know me or not, I don't want to talk to them. But the guys that know who they are, decent friend. But all in all my "womanhood" defenitly NOT on the line when I'm around a guy at all. Men are not the dominant sex, neither is woman. In my eyes we are all equal we just need to find the right path.
ReplyDelete-Katie M.
Boys and girls... are they really different? They are just like us, they have organs, emotions, and they know how to love. But even though they look like us and act like us, would some act different around their opposite sex? For example do you think girls act different around boys or boys act different with girls? Research shows that eighty percent of girls and boys will act different around each other. You may want to ask them if you do, but the obvious answer would be a no, but you may see it. It's true that people would act like this because they're flirting. Flirting can have many meanings but in my own words it's when at least one girl and one boy are talking together, but the girl has a high voice and is starting to turn red, but thats my definition. It can be very common that a girl and a boy act different around each other because they like the opposite sex, are best friends, and or are close friends. For example one afternoon I was hanging out with some people and some boys, as I see that all the girls and boys were acting different then they regularly do. The boys were laughing and talking to one particular girl, as the girls were even acting weird and twisting their hair in one finger. I do believe that girls act different around boys and same for the guys. I have seen the difference and has heard of it. Allot of times boys will try to hide their secrets in them, like who they like or a test grade, but it always comes out. Boys and girls are just the same but love takes over your body and shows you how its done.
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Honestly, I think almost all girls act differently around guys, I do believe I am one of them. I think I’m more quite and self conscious when it comes to this. I’m not the type of person who can express their feelings without worrying about what people think of me. I know it shouldn’t be that way because you are who you are and no one or thing can change that but that’s just how I am. I don’t necessarily think my womanhood is on the line every time I’m around a boy. I think it depends on who it is, whether it’s the “popular” type of guy or one who is close to you and can trust. Obviously, I’m more open to those who care about me, have respect towards me, and don’t judge my thoughts. However, some girls don’t have problems talking to the opposite sex. Typically, these are the popular pretty girls who know guys will talk and flirt back. It does bother me, but that’s just how it is.
ReplyDeleteMadi Critchfield
No I do not feel like my manhood is on the line everytime I talk to a girl. I don't understand why we should feel that way when we are around any girl. I mean I understand that sometime guys get nervous around girls but, I don't think they should feel that their manhood is being challenged. I think we should just be ourselves when we are around anybody.
ReplyDeleteJake Stahre
Pesonly it depends on the girl. If its one of my sisters frends I act more grown up. Around girls in our grade on the outher hand I just don't change. Well thats not intierly ture I lock up and nothing emoshanal ushaly gets out and nothing gets in. I would be trying to get a girl to go out with me with little success. Now that I'm going to a difrent high school and a all boys school things have fallen in to place. Drama tends to be drawn in to girls that have been in puberty for longer.Apon realizeing this I have relized that the girlsin this school have no reason that they have no sain reason to juge me and if they do than thats thier cross to bare not mine.Back to my sisters freinds. There nicer to me than any girl in this school. The to reasons is probly just I'm asome and my sister is too.Alsow when it comes to sports if I were the type of feable athleat that changes his playing when girs are there that would be bring my inermost focous in to outerspace without a helmet and lowering my skill as a player. So yes do change when girls are arould, but it is to keep girls outand my true self in.
ReplyDeleteIs my manhood on the line every time I'm with a girl or girls? No, I dont really think so, well for me at least. Sometimes some girls make me nervous but over my "manhood" is not judged by how i act around girl, its how i act around people. Relizing there just girls, not monsters, makes it easier for me to be my self.
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An fallow up questions mr g?
ReplyDeleteVaughn
I think almost every girl acts different around guys. I have no idea why we do but we just do. We worry alot more about basically everything you could imagine, whether we said the right thing or just looked like a total idiot. Girls are just all around very self concious when they talk to guys, always worrying about their hair or what they look like where around friends or other girls we really don't care or at least we don't care as much. I don't really think that our womenhood is on the line at all around the opposite sex both male and female have the same amount of dominace. I don't think guys are any better than girls or girls are any better than guys. In my opionion we are all equal
ReplyDeleteSinead
Oh realtionships, gotta love them or hate them. I think they're a joke. The fact that we're only 13 & 14, and that ourselves our in a "commited" realtionship makes me laugh. If your in a realtionship do you see yourself with this person, 4 years from now? Because most realtionships only last 2-4 months average from what i see in my school. Would this affect my manly hood? Ofcourse not, the realtionships I've been in, mean nothing to me whatsoever. Unless something idiotic happens, that can affect my future, then no. The fact of talking to the same girl, being with the same girl annoys me. I rather just flirt with girls, and not being in a realtionship, and enjoy the rest of my childhood. It is what it is, look at some guys in my school, some of them are total tools, being with a girl every 2 weeks, that affects their manly hood. All in all this doesnt effect my life.
ReplyDelete-Normando
I feel like my manhood is on thin ice because if girls found out about the real me, I'd be a laughing stock. So yes I'm a different person around girls.
ReplyDeleteJack Levy
My womenhood is the only thing thats normal. Why should I act up for some random guy? If you want to do it and make some guy fall in love with you then go ahead. Cause thats what alot of people do these days. They wear fancy cloths,have there hair done, or even get fancy jewlery. Me, I like to be my self. There really isn't a reason why I would act up or anything. I don't know what these girls see in these guys for them to act up so much. There's really no point to it, I mean if a guy likes you then he likes you. I'm not going to dress up as some huchy mama for a boy. Sorry ladies, but I'm not going to change my personality.
ReplyDeleteAngel:(
If a boy likes me I would never act differently around him. Whats the point in that, because then if he starts to like me I know that he likes me for me. And not some mask that I'm wearing to protect myself from disapointment. I like myself just the way I am and nobody can change that.
ReplyDeleteMadison Welch
My womanhood is the only thing about me thats always the same. When you relizie that guys r just people it makes it easier to be around without gettin all nervous. Me personaly if im around a guy i like sometimes i'll get alittle nervous but i know they'll have to like me for who i am and not who they want me to be.
ReplyDeleteKyrsten:)
Relationships can do a lot of things but just because I'm around a girl doesn't mean that I've to be someone I'm not. Everytime I talk to a girl doesn't me my manhood is on the line I mean well sure there might be a certain person to me that makes me nervious but just cuase I'm talking to them doesn't mean I could loose my manhood. When you are talking to someone of the opposite sex you want to be yourself. Being yourself is important when you are talking to someone but just from talking to someone of the opposite sex doesn't not mean you could loose your manhood or your womanhood. So always be yourself to who ever you're talking too.
ReplyDelete-Danny
the avrige crush only last 3 months s girls dont worry your ditsy frends will be back to normal soom and guys well just dont brake up over txt i've seen the receving end and it aint cool.
ReplyDeletei think that relationships are good and bad becuase when you'r first going out everything is always good and your happy. then comes the fights your friends being mad becuase you dont hang with them anymore. Also the fact that if you get the girl and the other kid that didnt is after you. this turns into the triangle. and when this forms it ends up of chain reactions of diaster cause in the end some guys our girls are so focused on that girl or guy they forget about every thing around them. Also they are good becuase its not healthy to be alone and not have some one to care about. To me personally its a good feeling. Also some guys think that they run the relationship and the girl is there property but honestly it takes two for a relationship not one.
ReplyDelete-JACK PEDANO
You are truly your own person. I am so happy to read how you don't change yourself just for a member of the opposite sex. Always be true to yourself, and be yourself around others. To many masks are worn in this world.
ReplyDeleteMrs. Campeau
In many cases the opposite sex usually act different around each other. Talking about myself, on occasion, I do act different around guy,but that's depending on which guy your talking about. I have many friends that are guys. Some I've been friends with since I was three or in first grade. Being around my guy friends I know I can be myself. I can laugh, make a joke, or even say their shirt looks pretty every once in awhile. They treat me like a extremely good friend, not just a girl. I know they would never judge me. :)
ReplyDelete-Kim LaPorte